Mindset, According To Studies Related To The Peak Of Husband And Wife Relationships

Illustration of mindset related to sexual activity of husband and wife (Freepik/Gpointstudio)

JAKARTA – For married couples who have been married for a long time, sexual activity can decrease because it is not made a priority. The agenda of domestic activities, caring for children, to careers are things that fill the mind and subordinate the husband and wife relationship.

It turns out, according to the study in the Diana T. Sanchez, Ph.D. reported by Psyvhology Today, Monday, February 21, need to rearrange priorities so that you and your partner are on the 'same page' with regards to sexual life. Recent studies can be a reference, because it turns out that sex can overcome decreased focus and improve cognitive function.

Priorities can influence mindsets, which then lead to sharper thinking, writes Sanchez. A 2017 study by Wright, Jenks, and Demeyre, found that sexual activity can improve your cognitive function. This means that having sex is associated with better performance on tests of verbal and visuospatial fluency. Both are related to working memory and executive function.

Studies suggest that weekly sexual activity boosts cognitive skills. But if it's relatively difficult to find a click schedule with your partner, this study suggests either solo sex or masturbation. Efforts to make activities alone with your partner a priority are also needed.

Some couples are also religious who like spontaneous and unscheduled sexual activity. Write the researcher, it's okay if the condition is like that. But acknowledging that you and your partner need to improve may be the mindset needed to reach the pinnacle of the relationship. In this context it is not only satisfaction, orgasm, and ejaculation. However it is associated with the best way to be better in life as a whole.

Other studies have found that the key to having a healthy sex life is maintaining a sexual growth mindset. Like believing that sexual life can only be achieved through effort and hard work. Although it is not always smooth, but satisfaction and happiness will have the potential to be greater with hard work.