JAKARTA - The couple who are being hotly discussed by netizens, Fuji and Thoriq Halilintar always appear compact. In Atta Halilintar's YouTube channel, Thoriq admitted that he was interested in Fuji, who always appeared as he was.
"If the other woman during the PDKT likes to look good, it's fine. When you're close, you'll find out what's lacking. If Fuji always appears as he is from the start. Likes to say he likes, when he's angry he says angry. I like him who is himself when he's with me ," said Thoriq quoted Saturday, February 12.
It's normal to have feelings of wanting to be liked on a first date, but it's very important to be yourself in order to find compatibility and a genuine relationship.
Inez Kristanti, clinical psychologist and relationship expert, said that it would be difficult to build meaningful relationships when one is not being oneself, especially when experiencing pressure from social norms.
"It's understandable that we want to be liked on the first date, but to find a genuine relationship, we also have to be authentic ourselves. Remember that not everyone has to like us," said Inez, quoted from ANTARA.
Being yourself should be someone's focus when on a date ever. Expressing ideas or thoughts to new people is useful for finding compatibility for further relationships.
According to Inez, it is permissible to impress others with ourselves. However, if the goal is simply to find a partner, future relationships will be difficult.
"Conversations and brainstorming can help us to see if there's a match. When two people get along and have fun together, it's a great first date," says Inez.
"Once more familiar with each other, they can study and see if the relationship can be built further," he continued.
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