Wife's Lecture Lies To Cover Domestic Violence Ustazah Oki Setiana's Husband Is Highlighted, Abu Janda: Must Report To Police, Wife Is Not Samsak

Ustazah Oki Setiana Dewi (Capture the screen Instgaram @permadiaktivis2)

JAKARTA - A snippet of a lecture delivered by Ustazah Oki Setiana Dewi has become a highlight on social media. On Instagram, for example, the lecture discussing the virtues of a wife over her husband was criticized by social media activists Permadi Arya alias Abu Janda.

In his lecture, the main character in the film 'When Cinta Bertasbih' discusses household problems when the husband hits his wife. Ustazah Oki claims this lecture is based on a true story in Jeddah.

"The husband was very angry, so his wife was beaten in the face. Then his wife cried, suddenly the doorbell rang. When the wife opened her eyes, it turned out that her mother was the wife. Even though his wife could complain to her parents. I was just beaten, there was domestic violence, there was domestic violence," said Oki in the reels uploaded by Abu Janda on Instagram @permadiaktivis2 reported Thursday, February 3.

It turned out that the wife lied to cover up the sad story of her husband's beating and instead said that she was crying because she missed her parents.

"But the wife said, O Allah, I cry because I miss my father and mother. Her husband melted his heart. My wife, Masyaallah, keeps my own disgrace. It's extraordinary, I love and love her husband more. So there is no need if stories make us vilify our partner myself," said Oki.

According to Abu Janda, whatever the case, the beating of a husband against his wife is domestic violence.

"Sorry, ustad, if the husband is beaten, it's domestic violence.. especially if you often have to report to the police! the wife is not the sansak, the husband is tyrannical, NOT the wife's reward field," explained Abu Janda.

"I am Muslim but (sorry) I think this is a form of gender oppression under the pretext of STOP PLIS Shari'a," said Abu Janda.