JAKARTA - Having friends is indeed a great gift. However, it takes struggle to maintain the relationship. If it is not nurtured properly, then friendships that were originally in rhythm may turn out to be less frequent.

It's sad to have to hold on to someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. What are some ways to identify friends who are out of frequency?

Rarely interact

If previously communication between you went well, now it seems very rare or almost impossible to happen. Sometimes, the short messages that you send don't even get a response. This happens because you and your friends already have their own lives. If you have a relationship like this, it's a sign that you're no longer in frequency.

Different mindset

As a person matures, his way of thinking gradually changes. It could be that you and your friend's way of thinking that used to be the same is now contradictory. The reason is because each of them has had their own life. If you find it quite difficult to discuss with friends, it could be that you and he are not in frequency.

Sometimes there's no need

A good friend can be someone we rely on in times of trouble or joy. But if you don't have the frequency, you will feel both difficult and happy moments for yourself.


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