4 Things That Can Make Couples Unsatisfied Enjoying Sex Sessions

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JAKARTA - Having sex with a partner is not always satisfying. There are times when bored and even monotonous.

As a result, sex becomes less satisfying. Whether due to external factors such as work-induced stress, or the lack of an intense relationship with a partner.

In fact, the benefits of satisfying sex can build trust through communication. Pay attention to this so that you and your partner don't do things that can hinder mutual satisfaction.

Lazy to do pillow talk with a partner

Before starting to make out with each other, don't forget to communicate or talk in bed with your previous partner. Preferably, before having sex communicate each other's desires.

According to a sexologist and psychologist Joy Davidson, as quoted from WebMD, Tuesday, September 21, if you know yourself and your partner, you will have a more erotic and exploratory sexual relationship.

Just focus on reaching orgasm

Satisfaction does not always focus on orgasm or masturbation alone. When the mind focuses on orgasm alone, it is feared that it will even experience stress. It's different if we focus on maximizing every touch and sexual experience with a partner. Intimate sessions become more satisfying and enjoyable.

Comparing sex sessions with porn movies

The average cause of sex so less satisfied that is always oriented to porn stars. Obviously it can be a problem in married life. Porn stars are full of women and men with perfect bodies. It should be underlined, that it is different from the real world.

There are good and bad things about pornography that must be observed. On the bright side, we can explore a partner's sexual desires.

While on the bad side, women are described as always looking good or even always ready for sex. You should start to get rid of the thought of wanting to match porn stars in your sex life with your partner.

Spontaneous sex

Some say sexual satisfaction can be achieved when doing it spontaneously. In the sense without planning beforehand and running according to their respective instincts.

However, if you and your partner are super busy, scheduling sex can be a top choice. Scheduled sex can make couples more relaxed. Don't forget to prepare some romantic gestures and try taking a bath together, too.