JAKARTA - Children's behavior after returning from daycare often becomes a "language" that shows how their experience while being entrusted. Small changes such as becoming more quiet, irritable, or reluctant to return to daycare can be signals that need to be considered.
Because not all children are able to express their feelings directly, parents are required to be more sensitive to changes in children's daily attitudes and emotions.
Psychologist Devi Yanti, M.Psi., reminded the importance of parental sensitivity to these changes. He emphasized that parental intuition should not be ignored when seeing unusual signs.
"Don't wait until there is real evidence. The instinct of parents is a signal that should not be ignored," he said.
He suggested that parents start recording changes in their children's behavior after being placed in daycare. For example, a child who was previously active becomes more closed, shows excessive fussiness, refuses to leave, or even finds wounds that have no obvious cause.
If these signs appear, parents are advised to immediately take action, one of which is by making a surprise visit to the daycare location to ensure the child's condition directly.
"If daycare prohibits sudden visits, it is already a warning sign," he explained.
In addition, communication with daycare managers is also important. The manager's response to parents' concerns can be an indicator of the quality of care provided. Good institutions are generally open and cooperative in responding to complaints.
In more serious conditions, such as suspected physical violence or significant behavioral changes, parents are advised to consult a professional, either a doctor or a psychologist.
Not only that, Devi also emphasized the importance of documenting every finding or suspicion as a step to anticipate if further action is needed.
"Don't be afraid to report even if there is no complete evidence, because the investigation is the duty of the police, not the parents," he said.
He also reminded that the safety of children must be the top priority in any situation. "Immediately move the child while waiting for the investigation process of the parties concerned, the safety of children is the top priority, and there is no need to wait for legal certainty to take this step," he added.
By paying attention to the child's behavior consistently, parents can more quickly detect potential problems and ensure that the child remains in a safe and comfortable environment.
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