JAKARTA - At the beginning of a relationship, you may feel an overwhelming sense of love. However, the longer the feeling changes. Everything feels no longer the same as when you first started dating. It doesn't mean there is no feeling anymore, it's just that the level is like fading.
After being in a long-term relationship, you certainly don't get excited anymore every time you want to meet, no longer smile to yourself when chatting with your partner over the phone. It's normal, considering that phase has passed. The longer, the relationship is usually more serious, and feelings like that usually can't be felt anymore. Curious why love can fade? Here's the explanation.
Communication
Poor communication between couples is often the main source of arguments. When you are having problems but can't solve them well, you will remember how annoying your partner is. The feeling of love is actually still there. However, every time there is a problem, you will remember the bad things more often than your togetherness so far.
Want to maintain a relationship and make connections with your partner better? Improve communication! Problems in relationships are normal and will always exist. However, everything must be resolved to the end. Thus, after making up, you will feel the feeling of love again in your partner.
Time
Time can change a lot of things, including feelings. At the beginning of the relationship, you may feel that your love for your partner will last forever. However, over time, everything feels different.
The cause can be many factors, ranging from many conflicts, being stuck in a routine that is just that, rarely having quality time, being busy, or even feeling bored with the relationship.
If there is really no big problem until you have to break up, you and your partner can both try to make your relationship more exciting. For example, try to take time for a vacation together or at least do new things together, you can also go on a date to a new place.
Change
Initially, the relationship felt smooth. But suddenly there was a change and this brought a difference to your relationship. It could be that your partner suddenly moved to a new city, the place to live is getting further apart, has additional activities that make you more busy, or just moved to a new workplace that makes it difficult for you to meet.
Because of this change, you feel that the love between you is fading. Couples should be able to adapt to all conditions. Because change will always exist, sometimes suddenly or even planned.
Try to discuss again with your partner about your relationship. There is always the best way if you still want to maintain your love.
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