JAKARTA - Children sometimes show sweet and pleasant attitudes in front of their parents. However, sometimes there are also moments when they are annoying and annoying. Anger is usually the weapon of parents to calm down children. However, do not go beyond the limit. Be angry naturally and remember to restrain yourself so as not to hurt the little one's heart. Here's how to properly scold a child.
Explain why you are angry.Most parents scold their children without telling them the reason. This will only make the little one confused because they don't know what they are wrong with. You can explain why you are angry and upset with him, for example, waking up late, having trouble eating, not wanting to study, and playing too much on gadgets.
Pay attention to the tone of voice and the choice of wordsParents often scold children with a high voice to scare them. In fact, children can better accept that you can talk calmly. The wrong choice of words can also have an impact on the child's psychology. As much as possible, avoid words that are too harsh for children, yes.
Walk away when angry.When the child acts annoyingly, you should hold yourself before scolding him. If you are calmer, then try to tell the little one what his mistake is. That way, the child does not immediately taste that you are a grumpy and angry parent.
Do not always punish childrenNot all mistakes made by children must be punished. Many things can actually still be overcome by setting an example, such as asking him to follow the rules at home and continue to communicate so that children can learn not to repeat mistakes.
If the little one continues to repeat the mistake, then give him a punishment. However, choose the one that suits his mistake, yes. Avoid violence and physical punishment.
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