JAKARTA - His calm demeanor, far from being negative and gossipy, has made Surya Saputra almost never get negative reports. The only oblique news written in his life history is a divorce from Dewi Sandra in 2004. However, who would have thought that divorce was a way of hijrah prepared by Allah for Surya.
Heartbroken and helpless, Surya admitted that he was angry at the reality of life he faced. He was disappointed and blamed the situation.
"At the time of separation from my ex-wife, Dewi in 2004, it was the lowest point in my life. I have never had such a tragedy in my life. Losing my life purpose, what to do, I don't know what to do, I don't have income either," said Surya. Saputra while talking with the YouTube Channel team Celeb Hijrah.
Who would have thought, this artist who was born on July 5, 1975 had ever gone bankrupt. Even though there were many soap operas and films that he starred in when he divorced Dewi. Apparently, when he separated he left home and savings.
"Finally I sold my car, sold groceries, I carried my own rice sacks to small to large restaurants. I got rejection, some received it, some asked but didn't pay. I lost everything. Lost my wife, my savings too. I didn't take it. It really returned to zero, "Surya recalls.
So desperate, Surya did not dare to put any hope in his future at that time. To have a home again, Surya also feels heavy.
"I once thought of a house, a place to live, at that time I lived in my mother's house, I thought I could buy a house in ten or twenty years. Because I thought that at that time I got so many episodes, how many times, by saving little by little ten or two. in ten years I can buy a house again, "he explained.
But it turns out that Allah has other plans. There are no endless trials. Life is not always dark. God guided Surya to move by finding his own way.
"Within one year I thank God I could buy another house in installments, have sufficient savings. And it was opened for me. Our plan, Allah's plan, if it is calculated by mathematics, has not been met," he explained.
With enthusiasm, this father of twins tells how his new home was a turning point for him. "I thought how could it be? Allah is extraordinary, as long as we are sincere, as long as we surrender, we try, there must be a way. And Allah will definitely love those who try and are sincere," he said.
Is it true that the way to find love for Allah is that easy for Surya Saputra to get? Of course not! Arisan movie star! it must be teetering to order her heart.
"I used to have a point of being angry, blamed it on him, on me. Finally I stopped blaming, I was instructed that this happened because of the fault of both parties, and the last one was a letter from God. I tried too, but God didn't love me, I was sincere. He was only four years old. Lillahi Taalla, "he recalled.
There is a point where Surya feels very alone. At that time on New Year's Eve, Surya Saputra chose to participate in the mosque. "Finally I had a lot of activity at the mosque, during New Year's time I was also at the mosque. When people came home I was still at the mosque. I really felt lonely after people with the hustle and bustle of the New Year with my family, myself," he explained.
Often silent in the mosque or iktikaf, Cynthia Lamusu's husband gave a new way of life. "Fortunately, at that time I met a friend who understood religion. I chatted with ustaz, all of them were sincere words. Serahin with Allah. Angry? Angry with Allah. What happened is the best for you," he explained.
Finally, feeling Surya can let go of his anger and blame the situation. She found the way God loved her by giving her problems to study.
"How can that be? He thought, maybe you can't see what you are carrying now. How do you carry it? Like carrying stones in a backpack, it's heavy, you can't look back. To the left, to the right, too. can't, "he explained.
"It means take it off first. Just look at the contents of the bag. Oh there are stones, leave first and then walk. That means we have to surrender to Allah and always be with a positive spirit," he continued.
Apparently, it took Surya a year to get a sincere word. The anger within him was finally brought under control.
"During that year, I was looking for answers. Because for me this is the biggest tragedy. At that time I thought, what was my fault? I worked, did I drink, didn't do drugs, how come, what's wrong?" he asked.
After giving up and stopping blaming Surya finally got one word of happiness, namely surrender. "A year I finally got one point to surrender. That this is the way of Allah. This is the best for me and for Dewi," he explained.
Sometimes God does provide surprises that humans cannot reason with. Like home problems for Surya, after letting go and surrendering Surya received additional 'medicine' for his hurt feelings.
"The funny thing is, not how long it took me to let Dewi call him, he apologized.
I said why are you sorry? Yes, I'm sorry for everything that happened. No, this has been arranged by Allah. What are you living now, believe it will end well for you. What I am living now with solitude will end well, "said the actor who plays Surya in the soap opera, Ikatan Cinta.
As if in disbelief, Surya can calmly take Dewi's call, which he never expected. Because more than a year after their divorce, they had no communication at all.
"There is no emotion when communicating with Dewi. Before you apologize I have forgiven you. I also apologize because there must be my fault too. Because the separation was due to the fault of two parties. If there is good communication, it certainly will not happen," he said.
Remarried to Cynthia Lamusu on June 8, 2008, Surya Saputra learned from his failures. Maybe this is also the reason why Surya and Cynthia's households are quiet from gossip. Even when they don't have a baby, they stay together.
"Every household must have an exam. But how do both parties face the test. Sometimes a husband is tested with fortune, his wife is not strong. Most often it is, when a husband is given a fortune, how can he take care of the household? This remains stable. When fortune rises or there is no blame, it's over. If you keep holding hands, giving positive spirit, I think it will definitely be safe, "said Surya Saputra steadily.
Now with the hijrah path, Surya Saputra has a happiness that exceeds his expectations when he was brokenhearted and excited. How could I not, Ataya Tatjana Aisyah Putri and Atharva Bimasena Saputra are proofs of Surya's love bond with God with sweet fruit. Efforts coupled with sincerity and submission will never be in vain.
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