YOGYAKARTA Everyone at certain moments, starts to have certain plans to achieve their goals. Such as getting healthier, changing lifestyles, saving, to losing weight, or even a better career.
Instead of reducing motivation, but according to a longitudinal study reported by Psychology Today, Monday, July 14, only about 8 percent of people actually managed to achieve their goals. About 92 percent of the rest, give up halfway. Then, what causes many people to fail to achieve their goals, even though their intentions are already strong and the plan looks good? According to Ruth Gotian Ed.D. MS., an associate professor of Anesthesialogic Education at Weill Cornell Medicine, this is the main cause of people giving up achieving their goals.
One common mistake is to set a goal that is not specific. For example, 'want to live healthier' or 'want to be more successful.' Without a clear definition, the brain has difficulty directing concrete actions. On the other hand, specific goals such as 'exercising 3 times a week for 30 minutes' are much easier to go through because it has a clear direction.
Many people have big dreams, but do not share them into realistic small steps. In fact, success is often built from consistent daily habits. Setting weekly or daily targets can help maintain momentum and motivation.
Motivation can come and go. However, it is commitment and discipline that keep a person moving even though the spirit is down. Sometimes, the temptation to delay or stop is greater than the desire to move forward. This is where it is important to develop structured habits.
Fear is also a big obstacle. Many people are reluctant to take steps for fear of failing or worrying about being judged by others. As a result, the real goal that can be achieved has never been achieved. Accept that failure is part of the process can actually strengthen your mentality and increase your chances of success.
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Often, people feel that they do not develop when actually there is progress. This happens because no evaluation system is carried out regularly. By recording progress, no matter how small, you can remain motivated and know what needs to be improved.
In order not to be classified as a statistic of 92 percent of people who fail to achieve these goals, Gotian recommendations, start by making specific, realistic, and measurable goals. Set deadlines, make small plans that can be done consistently, and evaluate progress regularly. No need to be perfect, the important thing is to keep moving forward. Keep in mind, achieving goals is not an instant matter. This process requires commitment, clarity, and patience, as well as a firm strategy and persistence.
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