Recognize 3 Things That Can Damage Relationships

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JAKARTA - During this time, you may feel that you are compatible with your partner and it seems that there is no gap to dissolve your relationship. You are absolutely sure that he will not cheat and you can be together forever.

But wait a minute. Are you sure you and your partner are in a healthy, long-term relationship? You may not be very aware, but there are things that can damage a relationship if you do.

Even without cheating or unpleasant acts such as violence, these three things that are considered simple can determine the longevity of a relationship. What are they?

Too much demanding

It is only natural that you want a partner who is almost perfect. Handsome, kind, rich, and also obedient. Because of this desire, you do not hesitate to ask a lot of things from your partner.

For example, changing his dress style according to your taste, organizing his social media, determining who he can be friends with, asking for a shuttle with a private vehicle, and asking for things that are beneficial to you alone.

You may forget, your partner is only human. As good as he is in your eyes, there are definitely flaws. When you get used to being demanding, don't be surprised if he gets tired and leaves you.

Reluctant to compromise

During this time, you least liked it when he disobeyed your wishes and argued. He tries to explain, but you won't listen. You don't want to know and are more selfish.

When he asks for something, you flatly refuse. You don't want to be ordered around even if it's just a suggestion. Do you often do this to your partner? Be careful, otherwise he will leave soon.

Ignore partner's feelings

Whatever happens in the relationship, you feel like you always have to win. You always want to be on the most comfortable and happiest side. You become ignorant about your partner. You forget that he has feelings too.

You never remember what he likes and dislikes. You also tend not to care and don't want any effort to please your partner.