Here's How To Scold A Child So You Do Not Damage Them Psychologically

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JAKARTA - Children sometimes show a sweet and fun attitude in front of their parents. However, sometimes there are also moments when they are annoying. Anger is usually a weapon for parents to calm their children down. However, don't cross the line. Be moderately angry and remember to refrain from hurting your little one. Here's a natural way to scold a child.

Explain why you are angry

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Most parents scold their children without telling them the reason. This will only confuse your little ones because they don't know what went wrong. You can explain why you are angry and upset with them, for example for waking up late, having trouble eating, not wanting to study, and playing with too much gadgets.

Pay attention to your tone of voice and choice of words

Parents often scold their children in a high voice to scare them. In fact, children are more receptive to you when you can talk calmly. The choice of words that are not quite right can have a psychological impact on the child. As much as possible, avoid words that are too harsh for children.

Stay away when you are upset

When your child is annoying, it's best to hold back before you scold them. If you are calmer, then try to tell your little ones what went wrong. That way, your child does not immediately perceive that you are a fierce and angry parent.

Does not always punish your children

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Not all mistakes made by children must be punished. Many things can still be overcome by setting an example, such as asking them to follow the rules at home as well as continuing to communicate so that children can learn not to repeat mistakes.

If your little ones keep repeating these mistakes, then give them punishment. However, choose the one according to the mistake. Avoid violence and physical punishment.