7 Patterns Of Love Relationships Shown To Be Narsistic

Illustration of the pattern of eccentric personality love relationship (Freepik/stockking)

YOGYAKARTA Having a relationship with someone with an eccentric personality is certainly not easy. But someone who shows an eccentric tendency, may be common. This may require a strategy to build a healthy relationship. But before that, it was important to recognize the pattern of love relationships exhibited by the eccentric personality as in the explanation below.

Two people couple, share roles and respect each other. But the pattern of same love relationships shown to be eccentric is completely different. They may believe that they are unique and superior so they lack empathy and focus on themselves.

In a love relationship, reciprocal roles are important. But for those of you who have a love story with a eccentric person, it may require extra patience. The reason is, people with eccentric personalities tend to feel entitled to be treated properly, but not vice versa.

Lack of empathy, scientifically considered as one of the characteristics of eccentric personality disorders, reported by Better Health, Wednesday, March 6. This is because people with a chronic tendency do not easily identify and empathize with the feelings of others. They tend to treat others as objects, not humans. For example, couples who take advantage of their loved ones.

The mention of love bombing is getting more and more popular lately. Love bombs are described as romantic manipulation. People with eccentric personalities, maybe bombarding their partners with affection for getting love and trust. The sign, always saying the right thing, the relationship feels perfect but unrealistic, easy to say 'I love you', always want to be a hero, but treat others badly.

A statement or expression needs to be given in the right way and language. But if a partner has a eccentric personality, it tends to give positive sentences to compensate for the bad effects it does. For example, the sentence you are too good for me' or you deserve better'. This sentence is often expressed at inappropriate moments. Like when someone is slumped or rejected.

Once people with eccentric personalities commit to their partners in a love relationship, they may slowly damage their self-esteem and confidence. Then start telling stories about their painful, traumatic lives, and they are always victims.

They show themselves in a vulnerable position to strengthen their partner's trust. If the partner empathizes, it means having the opportunity to correct the hurt they feel and trap their partner in a difficult task.

People who showaxisic traits may think there's nothing wrong with him. Whether his behavior or something that happened to him, they never admit their guilt. They also transfer responsibility and throw it at their partner.

Those are the seven patterns of love relationships that are shown to be eccentric personality. So what to do if you are committed to this personality? Talking to someone close to or a friend and clinical psychologist can help you.