6 Midodareni Night Ceremonys This Mandatory Mandatory By Kaesang Pangarep And Erina Gudono

Kaesang Pangarep and Erina Gudono (Instagram/@kaesangp)

JAKARTA - Midodareni night is one of the traditional wedding processions that will be performed by Kaesang Pangarep and Erina Gudono. Midadareni is a procession carried out at night before the consent process. Middodareni night is also referred to as the last night before the manten candidate releases his single period.

Not only is the last night of the singles, the two Javanese traditional wedding brides also have to undergo a series of ceremonies. In one night, you will see there are some sacred ceremonies they are undergoing.

Nyantri has the meaning of staying overnight. In the traditional palace wedding ceremony, ngantri required the prospective groom to come and spend the night at the house of the prospective in-laws for three days and three nights. Even in the past, the palace occurred for up to 40 days. But in today's culture, nanti does not require the prospective groom to stay.

Prospective groom comes wearing cassriyan clothes consisting of a jark (length cloth), a takwa suit made from a knife, a broken headband, not wearing flowers, wearing a diamond or intanumum. At this time the bride and groom, if they only wear a pantalon and complete suit.

Midodareni night begins with an oval or handover. Usually, the family of the prospective groom will visit the residence of the prospective bride and groom by bringing some of the parcels. These items must amount to odd and consist of daily necessities. Starting from fruits, various cakes, toiletries, clothes, bags, makeup or cosmetics, and traditional foods. The male family representative will hand over this parcel to the woman's family.

Tirto wening is water given to the prospective bride and groom by the mother of the bride-to-be. The water, called turto wening, was drunk to the groom after the family representative of the prospective groom declared his purpose of arrival and handed over the handover or parcel that was brought.

Then proceed with chess laksita melampak or four main attitudes. Later, advice will be given by the father of the prospective bride and groom to the prospective bride and groom. The advice is in the form of Hangayomi's request to protect his wife, Handayani to meet the needs of his wife, Hangayemi to become a comfortable place for his wife, and Hanganthi to become a good family head for his wife and children.

After the chess concert, there is a look ceremony. In Indonesian, look, see or visit. At this ceremony, the family mothers of the prospective bride and groom will visit the room to meet the prospective bride and groom. Of course, the prospective groom is not allowed to participate because the woman is still being accompanied.

The series of midodadereni night ceremonies will be closed with a goodbye. When saying goodbye, there is a fishing line, namely the clothes that will be worn by the prospective bride and groom during the marriage contract tomorrow and the angsul-angsul, namely the sign of tresno. By the hand of the family of the prospective bride and groom for the family of the prospective bride and groom.