So That It's Not Crisp, Here Are 7 Easy Ways To Start A Conversation With A Stranger

Illustration of how to start a conversation with a stranger (Unsplash/Lala Azizli)

YOGYAKARTA – For those of you who are introverts, you may be reluctant to open conversations with strangers. However, there's nothing wrong with trying conversations to get to know each other and exchange context information with what you're looking for. Networking is even important for developing and advancing a career, meaning try these tips to open up conversations with strangers.

1. Look for small details about the outfit or accessories worn

Small details can be anything, including shirts, socks, purses, to shoes. Perhaps, your interlocutor has a striking ring made of agate. This can be a fun chat starter.

2. Ask about origin or place of residence

This question is most often asked when someone else wants to open a chat. From geographic clues, you can dig into longer chats and exchange information. You can also follow up about their status or your relationship with them.

Illustration of how to start a conversation with a stranger (Unsplash/Ernest Ojeh)

3. Ask about flight schedules

In places that are public facilities or other public places such as airports, you may meet strangers. While waiting for your flight, you can also open a chat with your next-door friend. The chat can start with the flight schedule and destination. From there the conversation can lead to various topics that you enjoy.

4. Ask about what's interesting in your location

When you visit a new place, of course you need a lot of clues to enjoy the trip. If you're new to town while attending a particular conference, ask for tips on places to visit and restaurants you shouldn't miss.

5. Discuss similarities

Even if you meet a complete stranger, your instincts will help guide you in starting a conversation. The key is to find common ground and discuss them. For example, about work or about things you like.

6. Discuss new things

Staying in a new place, may be more boring than opening a chat with new people and about new things. For example, about the device used or about the new building in front of you and the person you are talking to.

7. Chat about the unwritten rules at your place

Coming to a new place, there is a lot of information that needs to be absorbed but you can't read all of it on the information board. If that's the case, it's a good idea to open a chat with someone new who you think can give you a clue as to what you're looking for. For example, about the traditions, culture, or living habits of the people in the places you visit.

Those are seven ways to open a conversation with a stranger. According to Ruth Gotian, Ed.D., assistant professor of education at Weill Cornell Medical College reported by Psychology Today, Friday, August 19, the above method can also develop professional relationships. The key is to develop conversations on a personal or non-work level so that people know, like, and trust you.