Why Don't Men Keep Their Promises? Know 3 Reasons

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JAKARTA - You definitely know that promises must be kept. Because if you don't, you can be labeled a liar and lack credibility because you don't keep your promises. You, of course, don't want to be seen as someone with a bad reputation, do you?

Unfortunately, men often like to lie. Of course, this does not apply in its entirety or in general. When they don't keep their promises, it's a good idea for you to find out why men don't keep their promises. You can find some of the main reasons or that often occur below, launching HerWorld, Wednesday, January 19.

Make things easy

This is something that is often found not only in men. However, what you need to know is that while he has made things easy by promising, he is most likely not serious when he promises either. You could say the promise at that time was a small thing that only passed in his hearing, and he did not remember in the future. Because this easy nature is a trait that is not good for anyone you are, it's better to communicate with him so that you and he both understand this.

Just to calm down

Sometimes men like to find a quick way out in dealing with something. One way is to promise. The goal is nothing but for you as a woman to calm down. Because by seeing you calm, he was not dizzy. For that, he agreed to promise when he was having a conversation with you so that at that time you could just calm down first.

Can't say no

Some people in this world find it difficult to say no in order to refuse something. The reason behind it was probably because he didn't want to disappoint others. But of course this is not justification for not being able to keep a promise, nor is it justification for men. You now know when he promises any plan you offer, one of which is because he can't refuse.