According To Experts, These 5 Things Cause Women Not To Enjoy Making Love With Their Partner

Illustration of things that make making love no longer enjoyable (Freepik/Jcomp)

JAKARTA – The pleasure of making love is the contribution of the parties who agree on sexual activity. If one of them does not enjoy the sex session, it is necessary to find out the reason and find a solution so that the absence of this romantic sexual activity does not interfere with the love relationship.

The pleasure of making love, according to clinical psychologist and sex therapy, Dr. Marianne Brandon, not only recognizes the right technique but also needs communication to find the best. So, why can't women not enjoy the moment of making love with their partner? Reported by the Health Cleveland Clinic, Wednesday, January 5, here are 5 causes that need to be known.

Women's health specialist, Pelin Batur, MD. say that intercourse may be painful. It may also not reach a climax or libido is not enough to be a driving force for intimate activities with a partner. The first cause, according to Dr. Batur, libido can be influenced by many things. These include hormonal factors, stress, and relationship problems.

1. Stress

Stress can shift the sequence of sex activities to the bottom of the sequence after all tasks are completed. Even thinking about things that are out of control or stressful can affect libido, says Batur.

His advice, this cause can only be solved when a person realizes that stress is interfering with his sexual life. For example, you can ask yourself, or you as a partner can ask and help your partner find a solution to the cause of this first decreased libido.

2. Sick

Pain during sex is like a sign that something is wrong. Most commonly, pain from sexual activity includes pelvic floor dysfunction, hormonal changes, and other medical causes.

Pelvic floor dysfunction occurs when the pelvic floor muscles do not relax normally. Women with this condition often experience painful sexual intercourse. What is needed is treatment and physical therapy to help resolve the problem.

Hormonal changes, such as the hormones estrogen and testosterone, can cause painful sex. Like women who are breastfeeding, they experience hormonal changes. Even with women who enter menopause, this causes the vagina to dry and sting when forced to penetrate. In some cases hormonal treatment is required. But in mild cases, you can use a lubricant so that penetration does not feel painful.

Other medical causes, including infection and endometriosis. Batur said, the solution that can be done depends on what the problem is. So it is necessary to consult a specialist to find out the trigger and then give solution steps.

3. Psychological causes

Anxiety, depression, relationship problems, sexual trauma can underlie the loss of sex drive. In cases like this, according to Batur, mental health professionals need help to overcome difficulties in establishing intimacy with a partner.

4. Weak libido

Sometimes a weak sex drive is triggered by a mindset factor. Some women have a low sex drive without any underlying problems and need professional help.

There are also women with responsive desires, who may not be so interested in doing so that they find being in bed with their partner fun. According to Dr. Batur, in this case he just needs to go with the flow and let the brain catch up or express sensuality to a partner.

5. Need a refresh

The last cause is related to the way and the achievement of orgasm. If sex does not reach orgasm, it is necessary to refresh knowledge about the body and sex education. Obviously Batur, many women think they should be able to reach a climax with sexual intercourse. Yet even with sexual intercourse requires external stimulation to achieve orgasm.

So, try not to be shy or more confident in the bedroom. Know the important points of the body to achieve pleasure, communicate with your partner, explore style, and maintain intimacy outside the room because it has a big influence on intimacy.