JAKARTA - Having sex while on vacation feels more free and fun. The concept of vacation allows us to escape from daily routines and make our minds more open to new experiences. With less shame and a more focused focus, the five senses become sharper.
Subconsciously, you tend to be more open to trying new things, from trying new foods to different sexual experiences. This new environment full of new things can be very exciting.
"Sharing new experiences with a partner actually creates emotional intimacy," says Relationship Coach Lee Wilson, quoted by Men's Journal on Saturday, December 27, 2025.
In addition to strengthening closeness and long-term relationships, the sensation of sex during a vacation can also increase passion. Dr. Justin Lehmiller explains, new interactions during a trip can usually trigger a higher level of passion.
In his survey for the book Tell Me What You Want, Lehmiller found that 83% of people imagine having sex in exotic places like the beach, and 90% imagine having sex in a hotel.
"Beaches are so synonymous with romance and relaxation, so that's often my go-to for clients," Wilson said.
"Bed and breakfasts are also romantic and usually help you focus more on your partner," he added.
Wilson added that holidays with shared hobbies such as diving, photography, wine tasting, fishing, or horseback riding can increase emotional closeness.
"This shared hobby often serves as a trigger to revive sexual life," explained Wilson.
In addition to a new environment, holidays also make us leave behind daily routines and responsibilities that cause stress and lower libido.
"It feels good to be away from home without having to think about washing clothes, washing dishes, or picking up children from soccer," said Tami Rose, sex educator and owner of Romantic Adventures.
This makes it easier to relax, indulge in sexual desires, and get out of routines.
"One of the things I love about holidays is the likelihood that you won't see those people again," Rose said.
"So if you kiss too long in the elevator or show a little skin in the window of a high-rise apartment, who will know? No. And the risk of 'being seen' while doing something naughty can be very exciting for many people. This can arouse a partner's passion in a new way," he continued.
Holidays also provide an opportunity to communicate with your partner about your desires and pleasures, which can be brought back into your sex life at home.
"The couple feels new and different, but we can still go home with them and enjoy the comfort and familiarity," said Rose.
Wilson added that vacations usually give more free time, so more time for sex.
"I suggest changing positions often. From missionary to doggy style, then cowgirl, without just focusing on orgasm. Enjoy the process and stay in the moment," he said.
"The results can be amazing for sexual life," he added.
Rose advises choosing a vacation destination that is different from where you live. For example, if you live in a quiet suburb, try a long weekend in a bustling city like Las Vegas, or vice versa. New surroundings allow you to experience new things, both in and out of the bedroom.
In addition, bring lubricant for comfort and longer duration. If you have a favorite sex toy or want to try a new toy, just bring it. Holidays are a great time to take advantage of lower embarrassment and try new things.
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