Making Love Outside The Bed? This Is The Reason Many Couples Try It

Illustration of sexual intercourse. (Freepic)

JAKARTA - In general, married couples will have sexual intercourse in indoor beds. However, it is not uncommon for sexual intercourse to be carried out in a place other than bed.

Having sex in different locations is a pleasure for several married couples. One of the things that makes the action fun is because different places are considered to provide a new sense of the sexual relationship process.

One of the best things about doing something new is the difference. Often how fun something is depends on how different it is," said sexologist and sexuality educator Lawrence Siegel, quoted by Huffpost, on Wednesday, November 26, 2025.

Siegel also said that making love in different places would provide a different sexual routine. This move makes the activity less boring.

Fantasing about different locations can be a way to get out of a sexual routine and change things a little bit. Having sex outside the bedroom is a good start," he explained.

However, keep in mind that location is just one of the factors that makes sexual fantasy more interesting. The main part that must be considered is the emotional bond between partners, and how the two can understand each other and give the best so that sex activities are satisfying.

"Fantation is basically a 'mind', which means fantasy doesn't have to come true. They just want to enjoy it in the convenience of their own erotic imagination or share it with a partner," added sex therapist, Ian Kerner.

Some places other than the places that are used to make love are in the bathroom, under the shower, in the swimming pool, on the beach, in the car, and even in the dress.