Tips For Making Vanila Sex Feel More Exciting And Not Boring

Illustration of vanila sex. (Pexels/Ana Maria Moroz)

JAKARTA - Sexual immorality is a term that refers to conventional, ordinary, or stereotypical sexual activity. This sex activity is often carried out without exploration of phitism or practice that is considered unusual, so it is often considered less exciting and tends to be boring.

"Vancile sex is sometimes considered a 'bore' sex," said sex therapist and partner Nicolle Dirksen, quoted by Huffpost, on Thursday, November 13, 2025.

However, Dirksen said that vanila sex can actually be more exciting and fun. Here are some tips that can be done to have more exciting vanila sex with your partner.

1. Create an atmosphere that raises enthusiasm

Having vanila sex that is more adventurous can be started by creating a place or atmosphere to do it more excitablely.

Such as adding props such as pillows, which make it easy to try different positions. Experiment with different lighting, such as candles for more romantic light.

"Try having sex on a chair, ladder, or bathroom," he said.

2. Maximize the stimulation of various senses

Dirksen advised to engage in the five senses into vanila sex, ranging from smell, touch, taste, vision, and sound.

"For example, you can light candles that smell sensual, give your partner sensual massage, bring sexy food to bed, wear a variety of new clothes, and create a list of sexy songs," he explained.

3. Do a role game

If your vanila sex experience is too predictable, especially in relationships that have been going on for a long time, then consider playing a role. By taking this role, it allows you and your partner to explore something new.

Role games in sexual intercourse are unlimited. However, popular roles can be tried with couples such as nurses and doctors, foreigners who meet for the first time in bars, and characters from favorite books or films.