10 Things To Prepare Before Making Love So It Doesn't Feel Ordinary

JAKARTA – Making love with a partner is an activity to build warmth. So that it doesn't feel normal every time you go through it, don't forget the important things that need to be prepared. What do you and your partner need to pay attention to before making love?

Communicate

It may sound cliché, that communication is key. But the fact is that without good communication, every couple will find it difficult to get chemistry. Every couple has their own 'code' that signals an invitation to make love. You and your partner can also agree to have a special schedule.

Get approval

Making love involves you and your partner, including the need to get approval from him. This illustrates that every activity is mutually agreed, without any coercion.

Consent or consent can make the session in bed more comfortable. Because when you both agree, it means that you both leave disturbing thoughts.

Washing hands

Hands are the part of the body that is in most contact with the objects around them. To reduce the transfer of bacteria and microorganisms that can cause disease, wash your hands before starting foreplay.

Clean intimate organs

Slightly different from washing hands, cleaning or washing intimate organs serves to minimize infection and maintain the cleanliness of intimate organs.

Prepare contraception

Contraceptives need to be prepared when you and your partner are not planning a pregnancy. If the wife is already using contraception such as family planning, it means that she can not use condoms.

Condoms are still recommended to be used to reduce the risk of spreading sexually transmitted diseases or infections of intimate organs.

A study Human Seminal Plasma Protein Allergy: A Diagnosis Rarely Considered, although it is a rare but common condition in women with semen allergy. This is another reason it is necessary to use a condom when having sex with a partner.

Lubricant

Lubricants or lubricants need to be prepared in case natural lubricants are not sufficient. Lubricant needs to be used to minimize the risk of blisters on the vagina. If injured later it can trigger infection, meaning that there is no harm in preparing additional lubricant.

Take care of the mood

Room conditions, lighting, backsound such as a music player or radio can have a big effect on improving mood. Can also light aromatic candles and wear seductive clothes to increase sex drive.

Know your partner's fantasy

Everyone has different fantasies in the sexual aspect. In order for the session to run smoothly and both reach the peak of satisfaction, you and your partner need to recognize each other's fantasies. The goal is to realize in a love contest both.

Foreplay

Why is foreplay important before penetration? The foreplay session is the opening that more or less determines the final result. With foreplay, husband and wife can give each other and respond to stimuli so that natural lubricants in the vagina can be produced.

Natural lubricants can smooth and not hurt the penetration session. This opening session is also important to recognize and explore the sensitive body parts in each person.

relax

If your mind is divided or you feel tense, it's certainly not mindful when making love. In order to stay warm and intimate body and soul, try to stay relaxed.