5 Parental Attitudes That Weaken Children's Confidence

JAKARTA – Children's self-confidence is shaped by the environmental conditions. Especially how their parents treat their children. The way parents raise children, avoid being negative that can weaken the child's self-confidence.

Instead of making children live in discipline, a number of attitudes can interfere with children's mental development, including the following.

Children have limitations, especially when they are still in a period of physical and mental development or before they reach adolescence. Launching Psychology Today, Monday, June 14, Daniel Flint, MA, behavioral expert, parents who control their children psychologically can weaken children's self-esteem.

In his study, the behavior of parents who spilled and brought up children's mistakes signaled that the baby was not a good family member. The effect would be bad on his psychological state.

Brainstorming and being open are wise parents. But because of the busy contents of the head, they often ignore the opinions and explanations of children. This attitude not only discourages the child, but also makes him feel worthless.

Weak self-esteem and trust are often expressed in intimidating questions and statements. Psychotherapist Sean Grover, LSCW., reveals that having difficulty trusting children makes him even more miserable.

That is, try to catch your breath and maintain emotional closeness with your child. Avoid asking cornering questions and give your baby warmth with an open attitude and understanding of his feelings.

Insinuating, cursing, cursing are inappropriate for the baby to listen to. According to child psychologist Jeffrey Bernstein, Ph.D., sarcastic words can make children feel humiliated. It also builds a high and sturdy wall for the parent-child relationship.

So try to measure and weigh the words that come out of your mouth. Even if the child makes a mistake, avoid saying words that make the child uncomfortable. Guide children with wise guidance and statements that build their souls stronger.

Having enough time to accompany the baby is the key to being a parent who pays attention to the rights of the child. Give him a sense of comfort and get enough attention the child needs. Especially when he is looking for identity and his curiosity is high.

The five attitudes above that need to be avoided so as not to weaken the child's self-confidence.