5 Simple Ways To Appreciate Your Partner, Want To Try To Make Love More?

JAKARTA – It is not difficult to give praise, especially as an appreciation to a partner. This simple thing can make your partner more valuable and comfortable with you. What do you usually do for your partner, especially giving them positive habits to make them more in love?

The same daily habit that is done every day makes it feel monotonous. Without color, the feeling of love is not refreshing. Therefore, it requires a simple trick to make your and your partner's days no longer ordinary but more meaningful.

Want to try the methods below to make the emotional bond with your partner stronger?

Creating a love language for both of you

Every couple has their own way of expressing love. Some are giving gifts, some are just teasing each other so that they both laugh.

Citing the book Gary Chapman, Ph.D. entitled The 5 Love Languages, there are 5 love languages as action-reaction or receiving and giving, including: words of affirmation, having quality time, receiving gifts, serving each other, and physical touch.

Juliana Hauser, Ph.D., confirms that knowing what you and your partner like can help determine the best way to show appreciation for each other.

For example, if your partner likes an appreciation in words, then express it with a love letter.

Make a small 'movement'

What is meant by small movements are habits that are mutually understood by each other. Like giving a kiss when you come home or vice versa. These small moments are very valuable, no matter how busy you and your partner are, you will still have big things with small 'movements'.

Say thank you

The more specific you give your compliment, the more your partner will feel appreciated. For example, thank you when your partner picks you up, when you prepare dinner, to change the light bulb.

No matter how big or small the partner's hand is, try to give a word of appreciation.

Have a gratitude list

A small note for two that is important for every couple to have is a gratitude list. Gratitude ranging from material to spiritual things that have been passed together will make the relationship feel more valuable.

tease each other

In the points above, it has been mentioned about how to make a couple more in love. That is, by flirting with each other, they can build mutual respect and covetousness. Don't forget to also compliment your partner's activities, such as when wearing matching clothes.

Isn't it difficult to give appreciation to your partner?