Don't Be Disturbed, Here Are 4 Limitations About Privacy In A Relationship

JAKARTA - In every relationship, privacy is still needed. Maintaining privacy by not being open with your partner is very different. Because even if you and he are committed to a relationship, you are still you and he is still him.

You and your partner both have the right to personal things. It's not that you're lying or keeping secrets to yourself, maybe you just don't want to share it with others, you're not ready, or it's not the right time.

As a sign that you and your partner respect each other, here are four privacy issues that should not be disturbed by each other.

Talking about privacy is definitely not far from the contents of the cellphone. Cell phones are very personal objects. In it you can store photos, people's contacts, important notes, various applications, and of course the contents of short messages.

Should couples always check the contents of the cellphone? If you don't believe or like to be suspicious, maybe the answer should be. But remember, this is a private area that should not be disturbed. Afraid of cheating partner? Without knowing the contents of the phone will be dismantled really!

Couples should not interfere in your social media affairs. No need to swap

password, let alone check the contents of the direct message. If he does, of course you can protest and refuse. The limitations of social media also need to be communicated. Because, there is also a lot of drama in relationships that comes from social media, for example, couples follow many accounts of the opposite sex, often give likes and comments on accounts of the opposite sex, and so on.

Financial matters would be better if they did not interfere with each other. If you don't want to, it's not mandatory to tell your partner about your salary, debts, savings, and dependents. Especially if you're just dating, it's not appropriate to ask how much money your partner has? Unless you both want to be open or you are about to get married.

Each family has problems that need not be disclosed. If you choose to keep this story to yourself, that's fine! Actually, if you want to tell your partner, it's your right, whether it's only a small part or in detail. But even if you don't want to, a good partner should understand.