4 Bad Effects on Yourself If You Often Gangguan

JAKARTA - It has become common for people to prefer prestige. Prestige is a feeling of having high self-esteem, always positioning yourself higher than others so that it sounds arrogant, arrogant, and tends to humiliate others.

People who are highly prestigious will do everything to look equal to those above and refuse to look weak and be looked down upon. If it's bad, he's even willing to lie to save his pride.

The simplest example that can be found every day is about life on social media. When seeing people who are considered cool, such as influencers, for example, people who are jealous will try to look like that. He starts to imitate the lifestyle of influencers ranging from shopping for branded goods to eating in expensive restaurants. In fact, he is not able to live such a lifestyle. Just for the sake of prestige, he behaves like that.

Another example in the world of work. Usually there are people who feel the smartest by always telling great experiences and want to be aligned with the top position. In fact, in terms of ability, it is classified as not yet capable, but he always feels high and wants to be appreciated.

In some aspects, this gengsian trait may have been experienced by everyone. However, in fact, this trait if it develops in the long term can have a negative impact and be detrimental to yourself. Here are the losses you will feel if you often prioritize prestige:

People with high prestige usually feel the most powerful so they are reluctant to do new learning things because they feel they already understand everything. You also always feel that work and achievements are always better than others. In fact, always learning from time to time is good for yourself because it makes you more developed. Because of pride, you become closed to your own development.

In your work, you reject a team with low-level employees or new children who are inexperienced, you also reject various jobs because the salary is not big enough, you are also reluctant to make friends with people who have a lower education. In fact, it could have brought you better opportunities, but you rejected it for illogical reasons.

Basically, there are many simple things that can make you happy. But because of the darkness of the eyes, you become ambitious to pursue things that are beyond your ability. If it is allowed to continue, eventually this will make it difficult and torment yourself. Things that you used to like are not interesting. The happiness you get is more illusory because you always compare yourself to others.

In the end you become the person who is always thirsty for recognition. You do a variety of things to be seen by others. You yourself are never satisfied and always want to be praised by others, but the way you live can also be a mistake. Long life is full of envy and jealousy, increasingly looking down on others, and losing empathy.