Causes of Penis Feeling Hot During Sex

JAKARTA - Some men may have experienced strange things during intimate relationships such as the penis feeling hot and uncomfortable, to the point that pleasure is lost. This phenomenon is called 'fire penis' on social media, although it has not been officially recognized in the medical world. A young man named Jack told his experience on Reddit.

"My penis feels too hot when I'm having sex. I use water-based lubricant on the head of the penis with a silicone condom during anal sex, and it just makes it warm, not to the point of being annoying," said Jack, quoted from the metro.co.uk page.

"Only having sex makes me feel uncomfortable to the point of not being able to climax. Oral sex is absolutely no problem," he continued.

Jack added that what felt hot was only his penis when he was erect, not his whole body. Although it sounds unique, this condition really affects men's sex lives.

Dr. Babak Ashrafi explained that this heat sensation is actually common among many men.

"Because the body is very good at regulating temperature, the penis can't really get hot. What is felt is usually a hot sensation, not a dangerous increase in temperature," explained Dr. Ashrafi.

Physiologically, sexual stimulation increases blood flow to the penis.

"The blood is warm. In addition to close skin contact and friction, this can cause a warm feeling. If there is dryness or irritation, the nerves in the penis can be too stimulated, causing a burning or hot sensation, even though the skin temperature is actually normal," said Dr. Ashrafi.

The sensation of uncomfortable heat during sex can be caused by several things, including fungal or bacterial infections, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), urethral inflammation, skin problems such as dermatitis, and anxiety that can strengthen physical sensations.

Dr. Jeff Foster, an erectile dysfunction specialist, emphasizes the importance of using the right condom. In Jack's case, the lubricant used inside the condom could trigger irritation or an allergic reaction.

"Stop using lubricants inside condoms, change brands, and see if the condom itself is causing irritation or inflammation," explains Dr. Foster.

Sarah Mulindwa, a sexual health nurse from Lovehoney added that applying lube inside a condom can hold heat, increase sensitivity, and cause discomfort.

"This also increases the risk of condoms being damaged, which can lead to unwanted pregnancies or the transmission of STIs," he said.

Tips to reduce the sensation of heat during sex

Although there is no specific treatment, some steps can help:

1. Use lubricant outside the condom, make sure it is not oil-based.

2. Choose a thinner condom.

3. Slow down the pace of sex and take a break if necessary.

4. Avoid products that can irritate the skin.

5. Test sensitivity to latex and change the brand of condom if necessary.

If all of these methods do not work, it is important to consult a sexual health clinic or general practitioner for a thorough examination.

"A mild warm feeling during sex is normal, but intense or uncomfortable heat that interferes with satisfaction or orgasm is not something that can be ignored. If it happens often, it should be considered," said Dr. Ashrafi.