Not Just Keep An Eye On Gadgets, Here's How Parents Create A Safe Digital Space

JAKARTA - The use of gadgets is now part of children's daily lives, both for learning and socializing. Parental assistance plays an important role in keeping children safe while exploring the digital world.

Teaching children to understand how to use digital devices responsibly, to set an example of positive behavior, and to open up space for dialogue about what they encounter on the internet is the first step to prevent risks that may arise.

Clinical psychologist Phoebe Ramadina, M.Psi., Psychologist, emphasized that parents need to equip children with adequate digital literacy so that they can carry out activities safely in online spaces.

"Parents can equip children and women with an understanding of personal boundaries, communication ethics, and how to recognize signs of dangerous behavior such as groundbreaking, cyberbullying, or exploitation," he was quoted as saying by ANTARA.

According to the University of Indonesia graduate, the mentoring process does not only focus on the security aspect, but also on character formation. Children need to be introduced to empathy, respect for differences, and digital media ethics so as not to become perpetrators of violence against others.

He gave an example that parents can start from simple things such as getting children to not leave negative comments, not spreading photos or personal information of others without permission, and avoiding behavior that can trigger bullying on social media.

"It is important to ensure the use of digital devices that can be controlled by parents such as privacy settings, age-appropriate supervision, and open discussions about online risks without judging," Phoebe said.

He added that digital platforms should also play a role in creating safe space, especially for women and children who are vulnerable to violence. This can be realized through reporting features, stronger content moderation, as well as the provision of education about digital security.

Phoebe highlighted that there are still many women who are reluctant to report when experiencing violence for fear of being threatened, economically dependent on the perpetrators, feeling ashamed, lack of social support, or not believing in the legal system. A similar situation is also experienced by many children who are victims of violence, but do not know how to report or do not understand the complaint mechanism available.

Under such conditions, the existence of a safe space on digital platforms is considered very helpful. The space allows women and children to share their experiences without fear, as well as access the support they need.

According to Phoebe, the ease of reporting facilities and supporting environments can encourage victims of violence to be more daring to seek help.