Betah Jomlo, Venna Melinda Chooses To Close Yourself To God
JAKARTA - After experiencing a domestic failure, actress Venna Melinda seems to be more careful in love.
At the age of 53, he admitted that he was no longer active in finding a life partner and chose to leave the matter of a mate entirely to the Creator.
For him, the most important thing right now is to improve relations with God. He believed that if this was done, then God would give the best for him, including the matter of his husband.
"Oh, what is certain is that the main thing is closer to Allah, yes, because later when you are close to Allah, God will give you the best people, the best husbands," said Venna Melinda, quoted by VOI from YouTube Intense Investigation, Wednesday, July 30.
He also emphasized that his current orientation had shifted. The main focus is the happiness of his children, especially seeing his eldest son, Verrell Bramasta, getting the best mate.
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"Yes, but I'm not looking for it, because for me the current orientation is the important thing is to see Mas Verrell, Mas Verrell, hopefully later he will get the best match," he continued.
Venna openly stated that she did not want to open her heart to other men. She feels that at her age now, the mother's job is to pray for her children.
"Oh, no (open your heart to men). Because for me, if it's 53 years old, the orientation of a mother is how he prays a lot for his children. If later God gives him, he will suddenly meet him," explained Venna Melinda.
This attitude of surrender is nothing new for him. He admitted that he was never busy looking for a partner, even when he was widowed for eight years.
"But I never looked for it, never been busy, huh, begging for recommendations, no. Because even when I was 8 years old, I never looked for people," he continued.
Learning from the bitter experience of the past, Venna now has one absolute requirement that she must fulfill if she decides to remarry. Previously, he made it a valuable lesson.
"But if suddenly there is a failure, yes for me it's a kind of life lesson, that in the future it means that I really have to be realistic if I really want to get married. But now I haven't. Now relax," he concluded.