6 Questions When Mandatory Ta'aruf Is Asked To Prospective Couples
YOGYAKARTA - The main goal of ta'aruf is to get to know the character, principle of life, vision and future, and readiness of each individual in building a household. Therefore, this stage is very important to ensure that potential partners have a harmonious understanding and purpose of life.
Dalam proses ta'aruf, pertanyaan yang diajukan menjadi hal penting dalam mencari informasi tentang calon pasangan secara tersungkat dan terbuka. Ada beberapa pertanyaan ketika ta'aruf yang bisa Anda sampaikan kepada calon pasangan untuk mengidentifikasi kesuainannya dengan Anda.
Here are some categories of questions that need to be prepared when undergoing the ta'aruf process:
One of the basic things in ta'aruf is to understand how prospective couples view marriage itself. Questions that can be asked, for example:
These questions will help explore whether a potential partner has the same goals and views in building a family.
Because marriage in Islam is part of worship, it is important to ask about the beliefs and religious practices of prospective couples. Examples of questions include:
Knowing the level of faith and the commitment of prospective couples to religion is a strong foundation in Islamic marriage.
Getting to know a potential partner's family is also very important, because household life cannot be separated from each other's extended family. Some questions can be asked:
This question can illustrate the dynamics of the family and how much influence the family has on potential partners.
Finance is often a source of conflict in the household. Therefore, openness in this case is very necessary from the start:
By discussing this aspect, couples can find out about their respective financial readiness and roles in managing the family economy.
This topic is important because it concerns the future of family and descent:
By asking about these things, you can find out if your vision and future partner is in line with educating the next generation.
Health is also an important aspect in the life of marriage:
Being open about this shows honesty and readiness in living a real life together.
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Those are some questions when ta'aruf that you can convey to your partner to recognize him even further. The process of ta'aruf is not a place to find perfection, but to find a partner who has the same vision and can complement each other. Also read about the concepts of love and marriage in ta'aruf.
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