Psychologist Lita Gading Praises Ari Lasso's Attitude For Refusing To Meet Journalists To Discuss Divorce : Good Man

JAKARTA - Recently, psychologist Lita Gading praised the attitude of singer Ari Lasso who refused to meet reporters to discuss her divorce from Vitta Dessy.

Through his Instagram Story upload, Ari Lasso emphasized to the media crew who came to his house to immediately go home and stop looking for him. Even though the media crew was waiting around his house, Ari Lasso still did not want to speak up about his household matters.

"For my media friends who are going to my house, sorry I won't find you. Please go home in an orderly manner," said Ari Lasso, uploaded on his Instagram Story.

Through uploading a TikTok Lita Gading account video, the psychologist praised Ari Lasso's attitude. Moreover, the musician insisted that he would not speak up about his divorce.

"It's cool to know, isn't it. Men are gentle," said Lita Gading, quoted from the TikTok account @litagading5 on Wednesday, October 30, 2024.

Lita Gading assesses that currently there are rarely artists who do not want to talk about personal matters, including divorce in public. However, former DEWA19 vocalist did this.

"If you want to divorce, just divorce, you don't have to use chaos, you don't have to use badmouthing your wife like what. Why is divorce a court matter and their personal affairs," he added.

Lita Gading felt that Ari Lasso's attitude to not wanting to speak up about his divorce should be imitated, especially among celebrities.

"Recently, you know, artists don't open up to explain about their divorce. Usually, they keep shouting about the existence, but Ari Lasso is good man, it's cool to know. Proud of you, right," he continued.

Lita Gading hopes that celebrities can follow in the footsteps of Ari Lasso if he divorces. According to him, household problems are not the subject of public consumption.

"Hopefully this will be a good example for artists and everyone. If you want to divorce from divorce, that's your own household problem," explained Lita Gading.

"There is no need for the public to know, let alone vilify our wives or our husbands. It has become a personal secret, it is just extraordinary, there is no hurting each other like that," he continued.

Lita Gading said that the child would become a victim if the parents divorced. What's more, the parents separated badly.

"The only thing that hurts is the two of you, but the children. The children who are victims of divorce, that's what hurts." he continued.

Previously, Ari Lasso gave the news that he and Vitta Dessy had officially divorced through his personal Instagram upload. Unfortunately, Ari Lasso did not give a reason why he chose to divorce. With the approval of the children, they decided to reveal this news.

"My goal is that all assumptions, rumors, prejudice do not develop into slander because we have indeed separated and lived our respective lives," wrote Ari Lasso.

He also apologized for failing to maintain the 25-year-old household he had fostered. He apologized to his four children.