Experiencing Domestic Violence Being Grabbed, Beaten, Even Cheated On, This Is The Reason Nindy Ayunda Lasted 10 Years
JAKARTA - After a long silence, Nindy Ayunda revealed that the reason for suing for divorce was not because Askara Parasady Harsono was arrested by the police but because Nindy experienced domestic violence (KDRT). This news has shocked the public because all this time Nndy has always uploaded happy moments with her husband and children on social media.
The domestic violence case turned out to have been reported to the South Jakarta Police on December 19, 2020. long before Nindy sued for divorce on January 12, 2021.
Through a press conference at the National Commission on Violence Against Women, Nindy Ayunda shows a large photo when her condition is experiencing domestic violence. The Instagram gossip account @tante_rempong_official shows a photo of Nindy with bruises on her face, arms and thighs.
Apart from that, her husband also lost her hair because she was grabbed by her husband. Many netizens did not expect Askara's actions. They feel sorry for the tragedy experienced by Nindy Ayunda.
"Oh dear Nindy, all this time I have been covering it up. It's not strong in the end. Hopefully this is the best way, enthusiasm, mbaaaaa," wrote a netizen.
"Pretending as if there was nothing, but it actually saved a million wounds. Physical and mental wounds. Hopefully you will be given strength," said another netizen.
"Domestic violence is under the influence of drugs ... be patient, Ms. Nindy," said another netizen.
Nindy Ayunda's report on the domestic violence case committed by Askara Parasady Harsono is still under investigation. Nindy, a number of witnesses, and Askara have been questioned about the domestic violence case.
Through a press conference, Nindy finally revealed the reasons why she survived 10 years of marriage to Askara despite receiving domestic violence. "I survived because of my children. I really love family. I am very comfortable with family. Comfortable having a partner. So that makes me feel calm and have friends to chat with. To decide to separate is difficult, difficult," said Nindy quoted from the YouTube channel. Intense Investigation, Wednesday, February 17th.
For a long time choosing silence, it turns out that Tissa is no longer able to contain her feelings when Aska's family accuses her of locking up her driver and sister. "So yesterday I caught his success shooting a video told to spy on me. He was asked to take a house certificate, BPKB, and handed it over to Aska's younger brother," he said.
Lia, sister Nindy, said she obeyed Aska's family orders because she was promised a salary increase. "He said he was fine with me, what are you doing?"
Cornered by netizens for leaving Askara during a legal problem and wanting to secure this property, Nindy Ayunda did not accept it. "If possible I want my assets to take it. Now who is taking the assets? Who takes the house documents and BKBP in the safe? If he does give a power of attorney, it should be a power of attorney first, I see, then take it. But take this first and then the power of attorney? The rules are wrong, "he said.
Proof of Domestic Violence
Nindy revealed the reason for suing for divorce was domestic violence. "Actually I don't want to tell about those things. December 18 I received domestic violence there was an argument I was beaten. I returned to my mother's house, I was bruised, my sister and I ordered a post-mortem. That was me feeling strong. For 9 years It was me, the driver and my sister. I knew exactly when I got the greatness I went home alone, never told anyone else, "he said.
So far, Nindy has chosen to remain silent because she thinks domestic problems do not need to be told to others. "But in the end it opened up. Domestic violence matters have happened frequently and I have the evidence," he explained. Nindy then showed photos of bruises and wounds due to domestic violence in December 2020, May 2020, January 2019.
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Cheating husband
Not only opening up the issue of domestic violence, Nindy Ayunda also revealed that Aska had an affair. She said her husband had betrayed her love since 2015.
"I found Aska cheating from 2015 to 2018. I know exactly who the person (Aska's mistress) is, there are even people I know too," said Nindy.
The affair even depressed Nindy. "I am depressed, in 2018 it was so thin that I could say I used drugs. Even though I didn't, because of household problems," he said. Now, Nindy chose to sue for divorce from her husband.
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