This Cause Adults Have Few Friends

JAKARTA - When you were a child, as a teenager, until you were growing up, you might notice that there were many friends around. From school to college, you spend your free time hanging out and making friends from different circles.

However, as you got older, did you realize that there are fewer friends? In fact, the number can be counted on the fingers. Most of our friends today have known them for a long time. Then, you realize that it's been a while since you had new friends who were not related to work.

Relax, it's not just you who feel this way. In fact, many adults experience the same thing. What do you think the cause is?

When I was a teenager, I was proud to have lots of friends. Every time you travel, you will probably meet friends everywhere, it's easy to get along with new people too. After getting older, it turns out that his priorities are no longer the same. You will value quality over quantity.

You will probably only hang out with 2-3 friends. However, each meeting becomes more intimate because of your close relationship. You can enjoy a deeper conversation more than just lip service.

It is undeniable that friendships are often colored by drama and fighting. As an adult, you don't feel like wasting time getting caught up in insignificant drama. You also choose to stay away from toxic friends, gangs who gossip more, and choose friends who are suitable.

Many adults choose to be alone rather than with uncomfortable friends. If when you were a teenager you always went out with friends, as an adult, it doesn't seem like a problem. You don't feel like you always have to hang out in a group if you just want to shop at the mall or watch the cinema. As you get older, the more you know what kind of friends are the best fit.

You change a lot when you grow up. Starting from the mindset to the outlook on life. You will also become increasingly aware that all this time you feel less compatible with friendship until you finally choose to stay away. Although currently there are few friends, they can provide comfort and are reliable.

When you were in school or college, you had plenty of time to hang out. After starting work, day by day it got busier. Especially when you are married and have children. If you meet friends just to make small talk, you will get lazier. It will be even more fun to take the time to meet close friends.