Law Of Wife Rejects Husband's Invitation To Have Sexual Relations Islamicly

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YOGYAKARTA The wife's law rejects the husband's invitation to have sex is interesting to discuss. The reason is that the husband's invitation to his wife to have sex is included in fulfilling the right of the husband as well as fulfilling the obligations of a wife to her husband. Then what is the Islamic view related to this?

In married life, Islam prioritizes the devotion of his wife to her husband. The wife's devotion is not only in everyday life, but also in sexual relations. Islam emphasizes that married couples to maintain good relations must not force their will because husband and wife sexual relations are not just a matter of lust.

Regarding domestic sexual intercourse, quoted from NU Online, Rasulullah SAW once gave advice to his daughter, Siti Fathimah RA. The Prophet Muhammad said that the initiative of his wife to have sex would be rewarded by Allah SWT.

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Meaning:

"O Fatimah, there is no woman who 'prepare' herself for her husband with pleasure except for one (her wife) calling from heaven: 'Start to act!' God willing, forgive me for the past and the future.'

The wife's refusal to invite her husband to have intercourse was explained through a hadith. Quoted from the official website of the Ministry of Religion of South Sumatra, Abi Hurairah said that the Prophet Muhammad SAW said, "If a husband invites his wife to bed (to commit sexual intercourse) he refuses, so that the husband is angry with her, then the woman's malaknat angel comes in the morning," (HR Al Bukhari).

From these hadiths, it can be concluded that the wife's refusal to invite her husband to have sex will trigger the arrival of the malaiat to her wife until the morning.

However, citing from the writing uploaded on Tebuireng's official website, the wife's refusal to have sex with her husband may be done as long as there is a certain age. The thread in question is in the form of a condition where if the wife accepts the invitation, a threat will occur that could harm her.

On the other hand, when the husband gets a refusal from his wife to have intercourse, he must also be wise. This is as exemplified by the prophet Muhammad SAW when a man comes who wants to marry his daughter Asma ' binti Nu'man with him.

But one time, the Prophet had received a refusal from Asma to have sex because of his skin disease. Receiving this rejection, the Prophet then asked Asma to meet his family as a symbol of kinayah divorce.

From this story, the behavior of the Prophet Muhammad gave an example that the rejection of the invitation to have sex from a wife does not need to be responded to with anger. In addition, the Prophet also gave advice that how to treat a wife must be wise.

Both in terms of men and women must both fulfill each other's rights in the household.